DIY Blackout Blindfold

I’ve never found the perfect blindfold. Either you can see underneath it or it falls off. It’s never quite right. So I decided to create my own. I do quite a bit of open water swimming so I had some old goggles that I thought would make a perfect blindfold if I could black out […]

FLR Weekend

I get a weeks notice for these weekends. This one is to start earlier than usual on Thursday evening. Thursday. I get back from work, shower and put on the chastity device Mistress has chosen. I present myself for inspection but have forgotten that I should be wearing feminine underwear! I put it on my […]

Laser Hair Removal Update

Three quarters of my way through my laser hair removal that the Wife ordered. She chose the amount and shape of the hair to be retained. She’s contemplating asking for the last 2 sessions to be the whole lot again so the remaining hair is thinner. I shall obviously do what she requests.

Piss Slave For My Mistress

The Wife has a bucket list of kinks that She would like to make reality. One of these involves my mouth and Her piss. To be honest I have a fantasy that I’m in the female toilets of a very busy night club. I’m fully encased in a heavy leather suit and bound tightly on […]

Male Laser Hair Removal

The Wife isn’t a fan of pubic hair. I’ve always kept mine very short and trimmed as a result. This was quite tedious, shaving the whole area all the time. She told me to go and have the area lasered, get it removed permanently. She had her’s lasered into a gorgeous micro landing strip a […]

Female Led Relationship Manifesto FLR

Mistress decided I needed to be reminded who was in control as my discipline towards Her was slowly being eroded. She was going to control me for the week. She needed to know I understood what was required of me so I had to produce a Manifesto for Her. My Manifesto Synopsis:To ensure You are […]

Pubic Piercing Retirement

It was always an experiment. I really only got it to see if it gave the Wife some extra stimulation and pleasure. She came to the conclusion quite a long time ago that it doesn’t do anything for her. I liked the look of it and it wasn’t any trouble so I’ve kept it in […]

Lock in Chastity Through My PA

The Wife kept telling me to purchase a chastity device she knew was 100% escape proof. The device we settled on has a 4mm pin that goes through my PA. It’s a little tricky to put on but as far as I can tell it is impossible to pull out of. It’s quite tight too […]

Pubic Piercing: 3.2mm Circular Barbell

I’ve changed my pubic piercing jewelry to a 3.2mm x 19mm barbell. The end balls are 9mm.

Pubic Piercing: E-Stim Chastity Device

I’ve had this Public Enemy No1 E-Stim device for a while but haven’t worn it for ages. After my Saturday jobs the Wife told me to lock myself away in it. We had some of her friends round for an early evening BBQ so I had to entertain them all locked up and knowing full […]

Pubic Piercing: Bigger 3.2mm X 21mm CBR

It’s been about six months since I had my pubic piercing put in. It’s a great piercing, I love how it looks and it makes me feel good when I see it. I’ve had the same 2.4mm X 19mm CBR from the begging so I thought it was about time I went up a size. […]

Guiche: Gone but not forgotten

Unfortunately I had to retire my guiche. It was a hard decision but in the end it was the right decision. I enjoyed it while it was in but I made a mistake when I changed the curved barbell to a CBR. As I’ve said in a previous post the ring gave me all sorts […]

Pup Life: Paws

My paws have arrived, very happy. Great craftsmanship, lovely leather and the red piping sets them off beautifully.

PA: Large Ball

I’ve changed the ball on my PA, it’s a little larger now. The last one disappeared down my urethra now and again, hopefully the larger ball will not. Also I like the look of the bigger ball.

Guiche: Pain

It’s been a painful week since I had the barbell changed for a CBR. I don’t think the ring was big enough, the ring was pulling the ends of the piercing in, cutting inwards. The ends split and it was very painful, the last straw was a very nasty smell. It’s tricky to get a […]

Prince Albert, Guiche and Pubic Piercing Photo

Pubic Piercing and Guiche Stretching Appointment

I’ve booked for the 7th March to have a pubic piercing and to change the 2.4mm curved barbell in my guiche for a captive bead ring, I think it will be stretched up to the next gauge too as I want a chunky ring.

Pubic Piercing: It’s In

I now have a pubic piercing to add to my collection, a 2.4mm X 19mm CBR. I feel a little sorry for my piercer, every time I go she has to have my dick in her face, right up close and personal. It’s a hazard of the job I suppose. Anyway she took a good […]

Guiche: Near Disaster

While I was undressing last night my curved bar ball from my guiche fell onto the floor with one of it’s balls missing from the end. I was in a state of panic, scrabbling around on the floor looking for the missing ball. To make matters worse we are away on holiday so I don’t […]

Pubic Piercing

I’ve had a request from the Wife. I was running through possible male genital piercings and got to the pubic piercing and it’s benefits for the female, apparently this piercing has been described as the best male genital piercing to provide your partner with added clitoral stimulation, the Wife was very interested, she is more […]

Guiche: The Piercing

Today was a great day. I now have two genital piercings, a Prince Albert and a Guiche. It’s always slightly strange taking your trousers down in front of a stranger but it is even stranger discussing where you want a guiche piercing. Once we’d established that my anatomy will accept a guiche ie a ridge […]

Guiche Appointment is Booked

This Saturday is Guiche day. The appointment is booked, so unless my anatomy isn’t suitable I will have a Guiche piercing by Saturday evening. I’ll update this blog about how painful it is, the aftercare and what it’s like living with it. I’ve also got 4 more genital piercing ideas that I want to discuss […]

Guiche Piercing

It’s been 9 months since I had my Prince Albert piercing. It’s healed perfectly and everything has gone well. I’ve decided that I need another piercing and the Guiche seems to be the one I’m drawn to. To me it is an aesthetically pleasing piercing and according to the internet could give additional benefits such […]

House Maid Humiliation

The Wife read this article: My Greatest Desire is to be a Ladie’s Maid and decided that this would be an excellent way to humiliate me and to get a lot of housework done without doing it herself. I was ordered to purchase the frilliest pink apron I could find and then prepare myself for […]

8g 16mm CBR

I’ve changed direction slightly. I’m now wearing an 8g 16mm CBR and it is so so comfortable. My foreskin rolls over it perfectly and it sits flush to the head of my penis, you don’t know I’m even wearing it unless you saw the little flash of silver right at the tip. And sex is […]

Hollywood Wax

Had my Hollywood wax last week. Not half as painful as I had been lead to believe it would be. Not half as embarrassing either. I love the baldness (and so does The Wife BTW) and I thought that I might add waxing to my routine. BUT and it’s a big BUT, hair started to […]

Male Hollywood Wax

The Wife isn’t the biggest fan of lots of body hair on a man. As a consequence I keep everything well trimmed with a weekly trim. But an offhand comment looks like it means a trip to the Beauty Salon for a Hollywood wax. All I happened to say was that trimming every week was […]

Stretching to 4g 22mm CBR

I fitted my 4g 22mm CBR finally. It didn’t quite go as expected. I had real difficulty getting the Easy Fit Ring to go through the piercing and I couldn’t figure out why. The curved taper was in and I was backing the ring up behind it like I have done for all the other […]

6g to 4g Stretching

I’ve had the 6g CBR in for a couple of months now so I was curious to find out how much it had stretched naturally. I was amazed to find that the 4g curved taper slid in with no problems just a very little blood!! I didn’t think it was going to go in so […]

Good Hard Shag (without PA!)

I’ve been taking my PA out now and again for a good old fashion hard shag (as requested by the Wife). Trouble is it’s been really difficult to get the PA back in. I don’t understand why on earth this is happening, it just won’t go. I have to get out the taper, have a […]

Bondage Cross Chair -Restrained for an Evening!

I spent a very frustrating Friday evening tied to the bondage cross chair that I have been constructing over the last few months. It exceeded all my expectations. Ankles, wrists, thighs and neck all shackled to the chair, 1kg weight around my balls dragging them to the floor, a fully inflated butterfly gag stuffed into […]

My First Tattoo

2018 is a year of firsts! I’ve decided to have my first tattoo.

From A Female Perspective – Sex with a Prince Albert Piercing – PA

I’ve now had my PA for 100 days and I’ve gone from 10g (2.4mm) to 6g (4mm) 19mm CBR but I haven’t been through this alone, it has also been a journey for my wonderful Wife. It was her who gave me the courage to go and get it done all those days ago. We […]

6g 19mm CBR – it’s in!

After my last failed attempt to fit the 6g 19mm CBR I swore to myself I’d wait three weeks until I tried again. This morning I finally managed to get the 6g 19mm CBR in. It needed the taper to go through first but that went through with very little force and pain. So I’m a […]

2kg Stainless Steel Ball Weights / Stretcher

Punishment time. 2kg is a lot of weight to hang off your balls, trust me I know as the Wife has made me spend several long evenings with 2kg hanging off my ball sack. I’ll write a proper review and upload it later but for now here are a couple of photos.

Impatient Stretching!

I really want to get the 4g CBR in before we go away on holiday in August, I’ve tried a couple of times to get it in but it won’t go through even with the aid of a curved taper!! So to try and stretch the hole I’m hanging a 12mm (000g) CBR on my […]

Cowgirl

Cowgirl seems to be the only position that gives me a little grief, I get a tiny amount pain on the PA. It’s a shame it’s our favourite position! Wearing a condom stops the pain completely so I’m hoping this is just a temporary thing and it will clear up in time.

6g 19mm CBR Stretch

I was curious to see what would happen if I tried to stretch from 8g to 6g as the last stretch went pretty well but it was only two weeks ago. I know it was probably way to early but I wanted to check. I can now confirm that I’m not yet ready. I gave […]

Viagra

Hands up all those who want to try Viagra. Yes that included me, so now you can buy it without prescription I grabbed the opportunity, Viagra Connect is what it’s called. I skipped through all the warning notices, no I don’t have erectile dysfunction at all or heart problems and purchased a packet. £20 for […]

8g Curved Barbell

I tried a 8g (3mm) 19mm long curved barbell today, it fitted fine but as I have my foreskin in tact it seems I can’t wear a barbell. The bottom bead means the my foreskin wont roll back into its natural position rendering it rather uncomfortable. So it looks like I’ll be sticking with rings […]

Stretching to 8g – 1 Week Update

The 8g (3mm) ring is a lot more comfortable, not that the 10g was uncomfortable but now and again it pinched a little on the exit hole especially when I lay on it in bed. The 8g gives me absolutely no pain whatsoever and is a joy to have in. I love the added thickness, […]

Shaved Back, Sack and Crack

I was ordered by the Wife to shave my back, sack and crack for the weekend and upload a picture here, so here it is. The PA ring is my new 8 gauge (3mm) 19mm Captive Bead Ring.

Stretching my PA from 10 to 8 Gauge

I’ve been wanting to move up through the gauges even before I got my PA. I was pierced with 10 gauge (2.4mm) 19mm captive bead ring and was advised by my piercer to wait a minimum of 2 months before attempting to stretch up. The next size up is an 8 gauge (3.2mm) and I’m […]

Stretching my PA

There seems to be very little information about how to stretch a PA piercing out there. There is quite a bit on stretching piercings generally but not much specifically about how to stretch a PA. I’m not sure whether to get some tapers or if dead stretching will do the trick. My gut reaction is […]

Week 4 –

I would say everything is back to normal, everything has healed up nicely, I stand up to go for a piss and our sex life is at the same frequency as before. Cleaning wise the daily shower is the only cleaning routine the remains. Now I get to play with it properly and see how […]

Toppers Club – London

We have decided to step gingerly into the world of BDSM clubs and have bought tickets for Toppers Club in London on 15th June. I shall post a review here and let you know of our experience. We have never done anything like this before so it’s going to be quite an experience, love it […]

Nipples

I think I have caught the piercing bug – I really want my nipples pierced now – both of them! According to google the pain is worse than the PA and the healing time is 3 to 6 month! Anybody had experience of a nipple piercing? I’d love to hear your experiences, let me know.

Week 3 – Just Hanging

Externally I would say that it has healed. I have “stressed” it and had sex quite a few times and it seems fine. There is a little bit of pain when doing it doggy style but I think that’s just the angle, putting a condom on sorts that out, there is no pain at all […]

Week 2 – Blowjob

The Wife gives an amazing blowjob, seriously good. But the Prince Albert has taken it to new heights. The sensation is different, it feels as if the whole head of my dick if being stimulated as well as inside. It’s really difficult to describe but it is a truly unique and sensational feeling. I was […]

This is what it looks like

Thought I’d share a picture of the healed Prince Albert piercing.